2025 brought growth, humility, and clarity. As I look toward 2026, I’m choosing focus, community, and a deep commitment to leveling up.

2025 was a year of contrast for me — growth alongside humility, momentum alongside patience. Some goals landed exactly where I hoped. Others didn’t. And honestly? I’m proud of both.
I’m ending the year deeply grateful for work I enjoy, people I love, and a career that continues to challenge me in the best ways. Slack continues to be a safe and joyful place for me. I re-joined Slack in 2023 after being impacted by layoffs at two prior startups with unhealthy cultures. Having stability and joy in my job is something I won't ever take lightly after those experiences.
This was a year of trying things honestly — even when the outcome wasn’t guaranteed.
In the beginning of the year, I was renting out a room at my friend Catherine's place in SF and I wrote down 5 goals I wanted to accomplish, in order of priority:
1. Purchase a house ✅
2. Transition to EM ⛔
3. Find a loving partner ✅
4. Speak at 10 events ✅
5. Reach my target weight ⛔
Some goals didn’t land:
But none of those were failures. They were data points. And they clarified what I actually want to invest my energy in.
Other goals did land — and they mattered deeply:
Those are life-shaping milestones. I don’t gloss over that.
In 2025, I doubled my freelancing income through mentoring and speaking. That surprised me — and also clarified something important.
I don’t want to optimize my life around maximizing that income. I want to enjoy it. Learn from others. Share what I know. Stay curious. Stay human.
Some highlights:
Community remains fuel — not a growth hack.
I’m genuinely excited about AI.
Yes, it’s a double-edged sword. But I’ve always loved tinkering — and this era makes exploration more accessible than ever. Plus I'm a bit biased given my fascination with AI related sci-fi since high school: autonomous vehicles everywhere, virtual companions, UBI, amped up humans. Sure a lot of that sci-fi was a bit dystopian in nature but a lot of it had happy endings!
What hasn’t changed is this: you can't easily replace highly capable software engineers.
The ability to communicate, influence, inspire, and uplift — those skills compound. AI doesn’t replace them. It amplifies them.
That’s where I want to keep investing.
I’m intentionally not over-specifying 2026.
One priority will dominate most of my focus: earning a promotion to Staff Engineer. It’s a goal I’ve been working toward since 2024, and I’m ready to give it the depth it deserves.
While I would have loved the opportuntiy to transition into manaement in 2025, it's more fun than ever to be a builder and so I'm going to enjoy the ride while I can.
Alongside that, I’m excited to go deeper — not wider:
I want 2026 to be grounded, ambitious, and sustainable.
A few reflections from others that resonated with me:
Different paths. Shared intention.
Here’s to choosing focus over frenzy — and building careers that actually feel like ours. 💛
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2025 Notes
I kept track of key things I did this year in the same Apple Note where I put my primary goals and stretch goals:
Speaking
Press
Conferences
Classes